Dating Filipino Women – Avoiding Problems

Dating Filipino women online and avoiding the scammers

One of the most difficult things to avoid when dating most any foreign women is the scammers. This is also true with the Philippines. Maybe even one of the worst. Considering the jobless rate and the fact that they can make a rather good income from scamming foreign men. Also there is the fact that the Philippines attracts the majority of foreign men for a variety of reasons. Meaning its a large market. pinay sex webcam

The way the most prevalent scam works today is these people have at least 10 and possibly 20 different profiles on the more popular dating sites. Therefore increasing the odds that you will contact many of these before you find an honest true woman that’s looking for the same thing you are. True love.

When you encounter these women (or men) they will do their best to make you make the biggest mistake of online dating (in my opinion) by falling in love online. They use pictures of Filipino actresses or models to get you interested first. Some will use old pictures of when they were young and beautiful for this also. Once they are sure you are interested it actually seems easy as they use the natural Filipino charm that lures an unsuspecting foreign man to thinking they are in love. There are some that will use a jealousy tactic and tell you that they really don’t think you are interested in them leaving you with a belief that you need to do more to show true interest. I met many of those when I was going through my experience. After some time passes. Maybe a month, sometimes less there will be something that happens to her that gets her in a predicament that she needs money to get her out of. For me, coming from a country where “shit happens” its very easy to understand this and you will feel for this girl and want to help her out. DON’T DO IT. There are certain circumstances where helping someone you care about is acceptable and I will go over this at a later date.

The one that comes to my mind was one of the firstĀ filpino girlsĀ I chatted with. She was very beautiful and actually said she was a model at one time. We chatted for almost a month when she had taken a trip to visit a sick relative and did not have the money to get back home. Sure I wanted to help but the fact of the matter was there was absolutely no proof she was even a girl! I never talked to her over the phone, never saw her in a web cam. These seem to be basic things you want to do before one might commit to any kind of a relationship that involves trust or money. Of course I did not help her and the more persistent she got just made me more weary of her. After that I think I may have chatted with her one more time. This was obviously a scam and she just moved on to the next potential victim.